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Hommage Mme Réjeanne RATTÉ

Hommage Mme Réjeanne RATTÉ

Paying Tribute To The Woman I Truly Loved: Rejeanne and l first met at Matane Québec on July 24,1994 and fell deeply in love with each other. This true love relationship lasted for 26 years, and even thou Rejeanne had passed away on March 19th 2019, she still lives on in my mind and heart forever. Rejeanne and l took many vacations together, as we were inseparable. Even when l went out to buy a loaf of bread, is where she would put on her coat, and together we would head off to the store. That is the kind of a love relationship we had together. As l was employed in the merchant marine as a ship’s Captain that took me away from her, but we always managed to keep our relationship alive. We recorded taped messages to each other, and using the postal service as a means of communications. Many times, onboard the ship where l was Captain of now sailing internationally, used the ship’s Satellite System \ phone to express and reassure my love for her. As Rejeanne was truly every thing that a man could ever hope for. Rejeanne was my life, and l loved her unconditionally. As she was my heart felt love affair that seemed never to end. As l write this about our truly love relationship, is where my heart and sole cries out to this woman l have loved for so many years. It is pure torture not to be with her in this lifetime. Is where l prayed to God that one day, he will allow us to meet again, in this heaven he created for all of us, that believed in God. Rejeanne often said that she would pass before me. Why she repeatedly said this, is where l asked of her to please stop saying this. As it made me sad to hear say this, and to face this should this one day come to pass. Think about the love and times we have and put these thoughts far from your mind, please Rejeanne. Rejeanne was truly a wife, mother, and grandmother to all her children and grandchildren. She never forgot their birthday’s or other times of the year’s special events, such as Christmas. She lived for all and gave more of herself to all. She was truly an amazing woman that loved life, and the man she fell in love with. Rejeanne was a quite kind of a woman \ / wife that didn’t have an angry word for anyone. She kept her feelings and secrets close to her chest. Is where she used to say to me when others upset me, she would say “Mon amour”, don’t become angry with those who don’t truly don’t know you and what your trying to do for them. Keep those thoughts onto your self, and when the times come you will have had the time to say what you want. This is the gentle side of Rejeanne that l admired, and she herself would think of others in ways that astonished me each time she dropped off clothing in a church box. It didn’t matter whether if the clothes were worn by her a few times or not. She thought of others that these things could make someone’s life better. That was the kindness and thoughtfulness that made her special and a greater reason to love her more!! “She was truly an amazing woman”!! Since her car accident here in Nova Scotia that happened on her birthday of August 5th,2016. Is where we decided to moved back into Matane Québec, where she was born, lived when I met her. It was here she worked for the Federal Government on Boulevard Dion for 20 years before. It was during this time l met Rejeanne. After a brief time of courtship l moved into her apartment and the love affair grew. Just after Rejeanne retired we decided to move to Nova Scotia, is were l owned property and a house there. Rejeanne and l lived there for 16 years before retuning to Matane. We settled into a motel apartment on Matane-Sur-Mer, as it was late fall and no other accommodations could be had, as we needed a furniture apartment. Thinking to move our Nova Scotia furniture into a more suitable center of town apartment in the spring. During this time l was able to secure a job working on a tugboat at Matane. Whereas Rejeanne and her daughter made and got her an apartment in the elderly retirement complex. Therefore, she felt more suitable of her surrounding, and with people she knew. Not to be forgotten that of her family that loved her unconditionally. Although we shared this apartment at times together. Is where I had to continue working to recover revenue during the 2 1/2 years that l had elected to go into a failed business venture, during 2013 to 2015. Therefore, as l explained to her l have to try and recover that loss, it was as painful for both of us. Yet once again we stayed together, whether by phone or driving back to Matane, just to take care of her. As l am very much in love with her, and would l not be. After all, 26 years living with the women l love, says and needs no explanation. Returned to Matane to tell her that l am now retired, and will be with her always. Only then did residents living there approach me to tell me that your “femme common partenaire juridique est decade”. This crushed me completely. Why no one informed men is heart felt to this day. I can understand why wives and relationship’s with seafarer’s are difficult at best, but when you truly love Rejeanne as l do. Is where l hope she will forgive me, and know that she was all the woman l could have wished for !! Always & Still in Love with You Mon Amour, Je t’aime toujours Mon Amour Xoxo / Derek


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